Another Day

I am currently working on a post about how much crazy fun I've been having in the first month of being forty, but I have to insert this one first because it just threw me a bit off-guard.

So weird. One of the approximately 972 calendars on my phone saw fit to remind me that today is my ex-husband's anniversary. Immediate thoughts:

1. If the calendar knows it's no longer my anniversary, why doesn't it know it's no longer his? 
2. Why can't I locate and edit that calendar?
3. I can tell you exactly what I was doing on this date a year ago, but I would have let today pass unnoticed if the phone hadn't reminded me. How odd that today is just another day.